Monday, March 25, 2013

Mommy's Stress

Seriously, I had a very stressful day.
But the stress is not about my office work...nope, not at all.

I'm actually stress with my children.
But I'm not stress because they are naughty...nope, not at all.

I just stress and miss to be with them especially during this school holiday.
I just wish to have a quality time with my sons.
I wish to watch TV or karaoke with them.
I wish to go shopping and eat the Fish & Chip in Secret Recipe.
I wish to go movie with them. (G.I Joe!!)

...I could only wish now.

I bet you suggest me to take a leave so that I could accomplish this Mommy mission.

Unfortunately, no leave allow at the moment. I have to forget my plan to take a break during this one week school. Work demand  is the reason.

Photo credit to twinpossible

Urggh! I can't tahan this. The stress has to be stop. But how? 
Delight myself by reminding me that I'll getting bonus in this few days and salary increment next month!
Ah! Money can't buy my happiness.

Gitu lah leteren jiwa ragaku sekarang ni.

Sunday, March 24, 2013

If you bungle raising your children...

Interesting article to reading about parenting and my weekend just worth by reading this!
Click here and Have a Great Sunday evening.

Friday, December 3, 2010

Mommy & Sons Talks

My motherhood has become more interesting when my kids are now understood about relationships. Well, guess what…

My boys were talking about girls with me. Haha…

It was 3 days ago when my 2nd son started this conversation;

Son: Mom, there are so many girls in my school wants to be my girl. You know bah like close-close like that…

HAAAA?!! What?!! I was shocked. I was shocked not because girls wanted to be his girlfriend but I never thought that my son dare to talk about this matter with me. Some children are shame to share such things with their parents. Anyway, I am glad that my son trusted me. (psst..close-close?...ekekeke)

So, there goes the conversation…

Me: So, what did you said?

Son: I said I don’t want lah…

Me: Then, what happen lah?

Son: They keep following me. Everywhere I go at school. Pening kepala saya.I don't like bah. Mana-mana pigi pun ada mau ikut.

This time I was controlling my laugh. My boys being chase by girls after he rejected them. Wow, wow, wow…he must be most wanted boy in the school! hahaha…

Me: When the school started next year, tell them that your mommy will not happy to see you to have close-close girlfriend during schooling and tell them that you are still very young and must study hard to pass our UPSR’.
Son: Huh, bah okay. Hope dorang listen.

Me: Tell me if they failed to listen.

Son: Okay.

My son then joins his two brothers playing.

As I watched my children playing, I was flashing back during my youngster. During my years, girls were more in quest of studying hard, get a good result, further studies to University and have a career before have family. I remembered I always make sure I’m getting top numbers in my class. Believe me, I’ll ensure that my name is listed on top three! Demanding am I but I’m so in-love with studying…

Oh dear, I really miss those days…

Unfortunately, things are different now. Some school children are more showing off on their parents’ wealth at school, send to school by luxury cars, expensive stuff, mobile phone and yup, have a boyfriend! From there, they learnt about clubbing, smoking, taking drugs and worst, having underage SEX!

It is horrible to see that some of these children turned to be addicted with these bad behaviors where soon it will lead them to criminal world!

Especially for school girls’, having unprotected sex means they are in the risk of getting pregnant out of wedlock, infected with genital Disease and also spreading the HIV Aids virus. Be friend with stranger is also putting these girls to be harmed such as rape, prostitution and murder.

Perhaps, we can blame for our highly advance living that contribute to social problems among our children. Perhaps, we, the parents should be blame for trusting and giving more freedom to our children…

What says you?

Back to my son story, I’m still wondering what it is in the mind of 11 years old girls about boys. Is it about Puppy Love? Ah! there are so many things running in our girls on these days...unpredictable sometimes...

I know my boy is a friendly person but his socializing is more with the family. I hope that these bright girls will understand what my son is going to tell them. Besides, they are going to sit for 2011 UPSR exam, studying comes first!

Well, we wait and see saja lah…